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You were the cute person at Ragtrader, there with a friend, curly hair and a dress. I remarked on your video game tattoo. You told me you wanted to get a Duck Hunter one on your back. I had teal (or maybe pink? Blonde?) hair and a fluffy skirt. You sparkled like fine champagne. I’ve always been a boulder, poorly shaped, just a part of the landscape. I was a few sheets to the wine. Or wind. I would have asked for your number but fat girls often find their romantic attention inspires revulsion rather than excitement. If you’re out there, I’m down to meet and see if I could be your rock.
starryeyes.thundathighs@gmail.com
We met at your local. We talked about our grandmothers and listened to The Orielles. You smoked barefoot on the balcony in the most brilliant blue jumper. You had books everywhere, every corner, even on the arms of your sofa. Bodies, text, feelings in your gut. I walked home with a pain in my ankle. I have been reading 'By Grand Central Station'. I can't stop thinking of you.
sicamgabrielle@gmail.com
the night we met we ran across campus together with a boy who would become my ex boyfriend, looking for adventure. i don't talk to him much anymore but we haven't stopped searching since. you're not mine, but when we hold hands on the train or you tuck your body close into mine, i wish you were.
we shared a toyota minvan from bushick to bedstuy; i sat behind you. we talked about gaspar noé - you said irreversible was your favorite, and i said mine was love. then we were at my house. i never got your number. i think we should see a movie sometime.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
i'm so grateful that we were set up with one another. how could i have known how sweet and tender a single weekend could be? i'm thinking of you from the coast, with the brine of the atlantic washing over me while i imagine how the verdancy of a portland riverbank might mix with the cedar of that perfume you like and how it might feel to kiss your very soft mouth again...
I put on coconut oil and think of you instantly. i’ve been oil pulling, pulling from my heart. practicing the self-care you’ve showed me. maybe it will summon you, wishful thinking. if not i will still have the benefits. i’ve thought about you in every corner of my house, on every step there’s a thought of you carved into the wood. my room is filled with our moments and all of the times I’ve carried you to your bed. you’re so deep inside my heart there’s no pulling you out, I’d never want to. I’m so glad there’s more good in there, I’ve been pouring more love into myself. i took some fish oil today, you’d be proud. I’ve always wanted to make u proud. i will always believe in you my talented beautiful bby. I really hope to see you soon, all of me misses all of you. I wish I could call you and hear your voice. I still look for you in whole foods, i see the same model of your car in the parking lot and wonder if it’s you. I’m actually looking out for you most of the day. it’s always a thought. I miss you kyla. xoxo love, your bby boi <3
like me, you like pretty girls. unlike me, you are one. you are a friend and the only person i’ve ever trusted and probably the only person i’ve ever loved. it’s nice that i don’t need to say so. (our minds are too similar for yours not to know.) sometimes i get sad that friendship is our limit. but then i remember that moons in the same orbit have to keep some distance to survive.
when i catch a glimpse of you across a darkened room, your head bowed as you listen to an eager new person taken in by your beauty, a wry smile on your face, i think, on a loop, 'i can't believe you're mine.' it's my favorite chyron. what i'm really trying to say is - i love you more than those bitches before. xoxo forever
31F in Brooklyn, seeking M to know me too well and vice versa. Multihyphenate creative & wholesome hedonist with her head in the clouds and her feet on the ground. The kind of girl you can take home to your parents as long as they aren't racist. A few of my favorite things: little treats, long walks, comedy, my Steam Deck, reading, writing, love, theatre, nuance, and continually seeking More. If you are earnest, thoughtful, and willing to attend some plays, let's share old things, create new things, expand our minds and hearts, and come through for each other for as long as we can.
hopelessromanticbk@gmail.com
26m, straight, Edinburgh, gainfully employed in an email job. South Asian guy from London. Green flags: simpatico with cats, favourite Greta Gerwig film is Lady Bird, makes spaghetti carbonara without cream. Red flags: likes Ted Mosby, currently reading Infinite Jest and claims to enjoy Tarkovsky films despite not understanding them
foxbooksjoe@gmail.com
25f NYC, 5’2 seemingly peaceful Latina looking for a strong man to provide princess treatment or LSAT lessons; ideally both. I enjoy writing literary nonfiction, translating poetry, sipping champagne at jazz bars and emasculating misogynistic men. HO3L3TARIAT@gmail.com
28M mixed black man from bedstuy seeking a hot-blooded, barely hinged flame. im goofy, unbridled, a lover of pesto pasta, arsenal, and esoteric music, and ready to charge into whatever you want to get into. my email gives away the game if you have any idea who i am from twitter (semi-notorious music writer/hater) but im fiercely loyal and passionate, i'll let you see why.
elischoop@gmail.com
25F American girl on a fact-finding-mission in Melbourne Australia, very girl without a country vibe as of late. In a very liminal and untethered space, looking for people, places, and things to bring me back down to earth. I’ve got great hair, brunette and curly, and I measure in at just under five five, though I’ve been told I give five seven. Loves oysters, beaches, books and lurking on film twitter. Let’s discuss the merits and downfalls of the film and novel adaptation of American Psycho and further whether or not we need yet another adaptation. You are funny, smart, and engaging. Ideally you derive joy from seeing others experience new things. Seeking leads immediately in Melbourne, open down the road to those residing in Philadelphia and New York xo. Shooting for romance, open to friendship and all other earthly connections.
rosamesbahi28@gmail.com
brooklyn, 24f, producer and also randomly SAT tutor. likes: laughing, pizza, talking on the phone, hanging out with friends for an extremely long time, cooking, television, R and B from early 2000s, bubbly water, shopping, edible marijuana. dislikes: bananas, fennel seed, not laughing, a bad night's sleep, fear email me if you want lalalaloo7000@gmail.com
26m, straight. Poet currently in Birmingham, UK. Looking for friendship & love. I like intimacy, taking walks, talking about books, films, and music. My love language is introducing you to the nicest things I find in the world. I like talking to animals, playing a sport or watching films with friends, and making them laugh. Tell me about your dreams, I'll listen.
concentratednitric@gmail.com
28F NYC latina, loves matcha, long walks, biking, ice skating, hiking, movie nights; not averse to a little princess treatment. Looking for someone to sweep me away with their humor, charm, and adventurous spirit. Espero que en algún momento no voy a parar de pensar en tí.
miragira96@gmail.com
34M, straight, Flatbush. Editor and film critic open to a lot of possibilities but desiring something that lasts. Two cats. Half-Jewish, raised Evangelical (it’s a whole story), firmly agnostic. I decided years ago to stop being a smart liberal in favor of being a dumb Marxist. I cook and bake. I’ve made 26 flavors of ice cream to date (Burt Baskin and Irv Robbins, I am coming for your asses). I have a map of countries I’ve visited that also looks like I’m planning world domination. I read a lot, I love museums and finding new restaurants and cool spots in town. I like shooting on film (and developing it myself). As an online writer, I know a lot about current discourses (much of it against my will) and probably have takes. Let’s talk about our fixations, our NYC bucket lists, and the best movie rep houses (it’s Spectacle).
danschindel@gmail.com
24F, Sagittarius Latina Bushwick baddie with a penchant for reading on long train rides. Film school graduate. Writer by trade and occasional DJ. Charlotte with Carrie hair. Public transportation enthusiast. Seeking companionship from an aloof, dark-haired man with a serious disposition, preferably also a listener of The Strokes and Marvin Gaye. Fondness for Sidney Lumet movies is a plus. I will read your birth chart and take you on historical walking tours around the city. Virgos, Scorpios, and smokers encouraged to apply. Looking to entwine our souls and Spotifys.
anerolpatricia@gmail.com
25f and based in london (but scams her way to new york occasionally). gainfully employed writer (sorry no generational wealth). enjoys thrifting / weird old bookshops / natural wine bars / flaneuring. very very very hopeless romantic but in a hopeful way. has a soft spot for jack kerouac types but like if jack kerouac had a heart of gold and went to therapy and wasn’t a misogynist. or a jess from gilmore girls (same criteria as before). let’s be sexy and kind and interesting and talk about the cultual zeitgeist and maybe never break each other’s hearts?
izzyjunkalmond@gmail.com
25f bisexual, london, (england). curly haired brunette bookseller and essayist looking for passionate weirdos and artistic freaks for late night adventures and handwritten letters. Loves jazz, marxism/anarchism, fancy cheese, cheap pints, feminist theory, french films, leonard cohen, arguing about things that we ultimately agree on. major weakness for artists and intellectuals, less serious than i sound on paper. potential friends, penpals, and lovers please write to bookstorebaby99@gmail.com <3
30F, lesbian/queer, Philly. Haphazard gardener, public library patron, committed friend, kind of a hater. Curly bangs, anti-zionist, phone off on shabbos. Live with gf and tiny dog. ISO lovers with capacity for erotic imagination, friends with room for deep affection. Prefer local but in Brooklyn ~monthly.
lildoodle+angelfood@gmail.com
31F, i desire intimacy above all. sexual encounters in public bathrooms. love to build legos, play chess and long movie marathons. fulfilled by making my loves homemade tortillas. i’m down to clown. unfortunately im like an onion and you have to pull back the layers. my cat is an asshole. gay.
spicypasta46@gmail.com
22M, Dallas. silly guy seeking good friends and genuine connections. desk jockey, aspiring better paying desk jockey. Artist at heart, but never learned color theory. Likes: bad jokes, good food, shiner beer, cool names, wood paneled dive bars, people watching, action bronson, cooking and hosting friends, staring at anything with an engine, Atlanta (the show, one day the city), Baltimore (the city), passionately shitting on our presidents (all), house music, supporting my friends art, careers and personal goals. Often described as the friend to call when your car is towed, need advice, someone to listen to you or if you need to move!
crispychicknlover@gmail.com
27m, recent transplant from boston to burlington, vt. iso of a woman to build a family and grow in tandem with. civil servant building a crystal ball, ostensibly to be useful to society in 2030. (truthfully, i just want a drop of whatever took Odin’s eye.) perpetual dilettante, seeker of rabbit holes, and faustian workaholic animated by a Glow i reflexively hide. electrochemically unable to do anything casually. when in doubt, ask me about music, or share your own enthusiasms. (will take an excuse to visit boston or montreal or nyc for a weekend.)
ajeypandey@outlook.com
25F Ridgewood Latina writer/journalist/drawer seeks companion for the end days. I like to spend my time walking, chatting, listening, reading, comic making, journaling, and sipping flavorful (vegetable) broths. Lately I've been into ceramics, riding my bike, rock climbing (sorry) and chilling among the septuagenarians at Film Forum. Will gladly be your loving, brown eyed wife if you are someone who values honest communication, knows your own heart and desires, and thinks caring about other people is one of the most important aspects of life. Also, if you have a big nose. mlopezr735@gmail.com
32M, Brooklyn, short king with a tall tbr pile. editor, writer, moviegoer (who here isn't?) seeks his better half. love of world travel (real or imagined) and art preferred. must value learning, doing the work (aka therapy), and cultivating connection. let's drive everywhere and have our souls intertwine (in a gradual, chill, and hot way).
clamtoclam@gmail.com
23f: writer, editor, aspiring dilettante. Mostly nyc but currently wayward. Likes: movies about gambling, Henry James, sharing headphones on long walks, elaborate card games, talking about the IMF crisis, David Berman, french fries in shawarma, anti-wasian (don't worry, that's me) discourse. Looking for: love, a partner to tackle Jimmy Stewart's oeuvre, someone to correspond with on cultural affairs. Location agnostic, for now.
aroundthecorner40@gmail.com
24F, NYC. Brooklyn-born, current Manhattanite, and Floridian in a past life. Writer and theatre maker. Likes: Paul McCartney, Talking Heads, pop culture trivia, discovering reading locations, art and history museums, parks and gardens, cats, dancing, the stage, and good cinema. Experienced in diligent pen palling and wandering the city. Seeking love ~ with M ~ and friendship here or elsewhere. For inquiries, quests, or dates, write to jonbonjanvi@gmail.com.
25M Chicago bookseller and artist seeks a companion for any/all of the following: museum hopping, picnics in Humboldt and/or Wicker Park, movie nights at The Music Box, beers & pinball at Rainbo, book-clubbing Kathy Acker novels, DIY haircuts, listening to the new MJ Lenderman album on the stoop, recreating Jackass stunts (romantically), eating mac n cheese and gummy candies that come in fun shapes. Openness to learning extensive lore about My Chemical Romance and condemned amusement parks is a plus.
loubarcott@gmail.com
29F straight lifelong Brooklynite. Journalist & podcast producer. Well-read hottie with a beautiful head of curly hair and a love of raw fish. Triple-earth sign, if that matters. Seeking a 30something partner for long walks through the grocery store, discussing fraught social dynamics, and unpacking the concept of “cringe.” Listeners of Bright Eyes, Avril Lavigne, Carly Rae Jepsen, and Boygenius are welcome and encouraged. Must be willing to be a devoted stepdad to a prized collection of calico critters and one Sonny Angel who doesn’t know she’s adopted yet. Let’s share a crisp Diet Coke in Prospect Park while remembering some guys.
beautifuluniquegirl666@gmail.com
30M, Los Angeles: seeking a wonderful woman and/or new friendships. Let's go for a walk or hike, talk about books and movies that make us laugh, cry, and finally laugh while crying... I'm short but never crowned a short king and wear short shorts when I'm running. I love Helen Garner's books and Holly Hunter's oeuvre. (Can't pronounce it aloud, though.) Just moved near the beach. Earnest, sentimental, and will cackle with sarcasm. Freezer's full of bagels. Expose me to new things and teach me what's good. Unquestionably better in person than marketing myself online...
IG: codyyybaird
26f, poet from london, lover of pastries & baz lurham's version of romeo and juliet & autumn & the poetry of frank o'hara & gardening & cooking & hiking & i have a masters in poetry. i don't trust pigeons. looking for my own star crossed lover so we can exchange love letters & read to each other by candlelight & get lost in each others eyes & drink coffee in a cafe while it rains outside.
croissant.girl@yahoo.com
31, nonbinary lesbian, commie episcopalian in brooklyn. devotee of magritte and malick with an obnoxious, snorting laugh. often found at revival houses, the philharmonic, coney island, choir rehearsal, or obsessing with friends over some dead guys. looking for a beloved sweetheart to exchange dumb jokes with until long after we have cataracts and bad knees. find me; it’s been long enough, hasn’t it?
katherine.dowd@gmail.com
36F NYC seeks man. To share: a bottle, a chat, a bed, a walk, a night. Open to any order. Me: personally conservative, politically radical. Aloof until you get under my skin. Open to anyone who'd like to try.
nomiddlename64@protonmail.com
28F Cute freelance writerly weirdgirl in Ridgewood Queens looking for nice employed Jewish boy. General likes: books, trivia, history, sketch comedy, indie music, street fashion. Specific likes (as of this week): Pat Barker's Regeneration trilogy/WWI war poets, 1960s rural American Beatles fanclubs, Sandy Liang SS25, open-source genealogy, Victorian mourning traditions. I'm a frequent traveler with family in the Midwest and lots of lore to unlock. Help me break my screen addiction by being more interesting than what's happening inside my phone! PS I am a LOUD TALKER.
areyougonnabeareyougonnabe@gmail.com
38F, northeast los angeles, bewilderedly bisexual, thick (physically but also kinda mentally, sorry) redheaded marxist dog milf seeking kindhearted gentleperson for goof offs, movie dates, wandering around the city, etc. ideally being together feels like we share a magical secret. unlucky in love; previous suitors have snost and lost, their trash is your treasure.
take.me.im.yours2024@gmail.com
36f midwest weapon. observant, quiet poetess and lover of things with sharp edges seeks hot adversarial nerd to subvert the surveillance state with. lately i’m into men who are rough around the edges and good with their hands. i’ll kiss your neck and you can read to me while i soak in the bath. let’s explore backroads and drink whiskey. bonus points if you can pick locks. where are you, angel? xx.
jane.x.lane@protonmail.com
28m, Brooklyn editor/writer (gainfully employed), regular at the Met (opera), the Met (museum), and the Met(rograph theatre, and also Film Forum). Seeking a lover of long walks, long talks, subway reading, the strangeness of history, good tea and, if all else fails, just a lover. I'm vegetarian, also 6'4", and I've got no known allergies.
bridesheadrevisitme@gmail.com
28F, straight//chinese american in los angeles califournia. digital artist in animation but more interested in the possibilities of transference and attunement. looking for both love and friendship. we can gossip about how every week of the year has had a different energy, the mystery of changing music taste, other people, body language, narrative affect, eroticism, obligations, devotions, responsibilities, and the purpose of beauty. small talk welcome. love, Miss Salty and Sweet.
starburst1957@gmail.com
24M in VA, lover of marxism, nature, cats, books, yapping, and the baltimore orioles. in search of a woman who i can spend hours talking to about anything and everything and also just curl up with and listen to balkan/arabic music or watch something stupid. cynic who somehow still believes in love and wants to find a partner for life. big brown eyes and dark hair preferred, zionists not welcome.
mattyminchev@gmail.com
28 (almost 29, happy virgo season to us all). butch dyke in NYC. Brand-new public defender, softball player, big fan of Channing Tatum and garlic bread. Looking for meaningful connections, good dates, and love, if it's in the cards for us. Lefties, idealists, abolitionists, ginger's bar aficionados, please apply
cara.hoffman7@gmail.com
35M, Pasadena Journalism in undergrad, musicology in grad. Wrote my thesis on The Beach Boys. Proud Hoosier, Italian-American,and communist. Vonnegut, Debs and Bird are my favorite Hoosiers. I like repertory screenings, Phil Ochs, Thomas Pynchon, Moby-Dick, and The Indiana Pacers. I love basketball but the only pick & roll I’m capable of is on the back of a Boz Scaggs LP. Despite my size 13s, the only eurostep I do is from boulangerie to patisserie. Seeking genuine connections interested in any of the above. neiljung45@gmail.com
25f, brooklyn, “the glue of the friend group” looking for someone to stick. Moved from sf in May. Likes: laying blissful and lazy in a park, museums with a theme (they tell the best stories), waxing poetic with friends, yoga, portrait drawing, the low hum of a heater in wintertime. Dislikes: dull conversations, mostly. Friends describe me as whimsical, thoughtful, goofy, easy-going, open-hearted. Former party girl (and on occasions, active party girl). I came to nyc to see rather than to be seen. Looking for someone observant and gentle who feels like home.
Valo.janigian@gmail.com
26F // Toronto writer gal but really worldwide for work + play. Survivor of a BFA in film. ISO my new favourite email notification? We could be pen pals or IRLs but you gotta love reading, long voice notes, thrifting, a good boiler room set and choosing bar seating over dining.
Newgen13@icloud.com
21F. New to New York currently in Brooklyn seeking friends. Loves: writing, dvd collections, going to the movies, bingeing shows, barefoot contessa, reading magazines, fashion and random historical facts. Also down to do workout classes, long walks, trying a an acting class and other fun stuff like that. I feel like a future Carrie Bradshaw seeking her Miranda, Charlotte and Samantha.
a.gracia236@gmail.com
29F editor and writer based in Brooklyn looking for love. Searching for a man to have meandering conversations with, read poetry next to, and cook for me. Loves: leftist politics, cats, the ballet, football (I’m from the midwest), post-war novels written by Italian women, and the French language.
beautyinspo95@gmail.com
25F grad student, writer, and theater maker. based in new haven, but looking for a reason to visit nyc every weekend. obsessed with nyu skirball, 70s fashion, and matcha. currently reading catherine lacey and emily zhou. seeking fellow marxists, chaotic bisexuals, and hopeless romantics for a wide array of earnest activities. must like cats (antihistamines available upon request).
spark304064@gmail.com
29M. I'm a writer & researcher currently in Vancouver. Enjoying Mathias Énard, Gillian Rose, and might try, finally, to make it through Arcades Project this fall. In films, still struck by Edward Yang's Yi Yi and Cyril Schäublin's Unrest. I admire well-made things, passionate people, and moral courage. Hoping for friends and penpals locally and elsewhere. Trying to remain attentive. You may write me here: lean.j@icloud.com
24 f in nyc metro area in search of someone to watch horror movies and go to indie bookstores with. let’s hang out if u like: the music of joanna newsom, literary fiction, a cheeky glass of white wine, art museums, and bisexual girlies with big brown eyes (me <3). also please excuse the ridiculous email address i made it when i was 13 which you can clearly tell
hellafabannie@gmail.com
(cancer sun/cap moon/gemini venus) communist and public defender-to-be in search of clear-headed, tender-hearted, committed utopian and otherwise multi-hyphenate gay guy.
sohumgpal@gmail.com
bicycle-bound bilbo baggins seeking love affair with compassionate genius. put away your tidy combs and magazines. let's flee the boroughs for alps and huts and windswept sands, stripping the poetry racks at every bookshop. the highs will be high and the lows will be low: blanc de blancs and mountain vistas, gas station coffees and hotplate beans. but within the season we’ll be back at your local: full at heart, full of sun, ready to gape and dance and drink and be bodies among the beautiful bodies. your dinner companion, friend, proofreader vice versa, and steady hands to put on your tallest heels: 34/m
aintsofar@gmail.com
26 nonbinary New York. Into one piece figurines + socialism + specificity + under the volcano + license plate selfies + apricots + poems by people I feel dubious about + cool zone media podcasts + Celia Cruz + bootleg t-shirts + bravery + teeth flossing + bitter herbs + costume parties + monogamy + disco elysium + amy winehouse karaoke + anise + true love. For dates, inquire at repelshumans@gmail.com
23F, south asian, brooklyn. I’m currently prepping to apply for grad school and spend my time reading cookbooks, sewing, and teaching young people. I’m extremely curious, (mostly) hopeful, both shy and outgoing, and always looking for the right words to say. I’d love to watch/listen/read things together and hear about how you see things :)
snoopypython@gmail.com
25F, Austin. Very romantic. I raise shrimps and write haikus. Looking for someone to navigate this purgatory with.
apricotprincess@yahoo.com
22F, Manhattan. Full time comedy writer looking for partner in crime. Two spoons sharing a stolen cup of pudding, sneaking into places, and coming home to listen to our records and cook fettuccine. i adore 2000s indie rock (Interpol over everything else), concerts, and Ina Garten. 5’6, brown wavy hair.
dublininecstasy@gmail.com
29/MA/dyke. poetic throat goat seeks someone to count their freckles and read pizarnik as foreplay. 12-step dropout, gravestone admirer, PubMed reader, dog beach enthusiast. drawer full of engagement rings. sick in the head. confident about everything but holding your hand. let's scream the new FIDLAR EP into each other's abyss. 25+ please. inquiries to @_caprihorny_ on IG.
36m, philly, chinese american burnt out union organizer on the verge of unretirement. 80% masc 20% nb, het despite my best efforts. indoor black cat energy, but well socialized. my multitudes include: heavy metal moshpits, ugly crying at the mitski show, taking a week off for FF14. powerlifting, politics, potlucks, poems. i like listening together to the silence in between. i like when relationships feel like an invitation to be better than who we have been.
jinnigan@gmail.com
27-year-old nonbinary person in Phoenix, AZ. Former community organizer and librarian, current part-time college student (English) and full-time school bus driver. Looking for a Gomez and Morticia kind of deal, but failing that, some friends to talk to about books, music, and art would be lovely. Tell me your favorite bad joke, and I'll tell you mine.
vi@goofpunk.com
24M in Brooklyn taken lately by Nabokov, Pynchon, Cărtărescu, Heidegger (crowd groans), looking for just the right words in a thousand-mile-per-hour city where everyone is under constant reconsideration, where, instead, we could read in the park, show one another things we love, lose our heads, bring each other out'uv ourselves, and end the night overserved and dancing to disco-funk at Coyote Club. You’re a strange and passionate woman (SSRI takers wanted but therapist-decreed “not preferred”) who likes your crush built like a Russian Hunting Hound (tall, underfed, canopy nosed) and Loving like one too. No lowballs i know what i got
tillingtheground@gmail.com
24F, brooklyn, writer/tutor/comedy producer things I like: hal's lemon seltzer, talking on the phone, pizza, adult recreation, when imessage makes that squiggly shape, yoga, psychoanalysis, eve babitz, joy tactics podcast, ebikes, love things I do not like: fennel seed, blade helicopters, large birthday dinners, bananas in a smoothie.
graceginsburg@gmail.com
25M, Brooklyn, in my most earnest era. Work in Independent film. Enjoy going to screenings and taking walks in nature. Mostly looking for someone to spend quality time with. I most enjoy the movies of Kelly Reichardt and Mia Hansen-Love, the poetry of Frank Stanford, and Annie Baker’s plays.
crinehartjones@gmail.com
28F, Brooklyn (& often Boston). WFH in climate tech (always down to play hooky for a matinee !!). I like to eat watermelon in the park, plan scuba trips, and take my cat for long walks in a stroller. Looking for lovers but also friends :) Someone to read me Russian fairy tales while playing with my hair, upstate adventures, etc. Would love love love to find a pal within a .5 mile radius (bedstuy/bushwick border) for spontaneous hangs <3
stripespipes88@gmail.com
29F, I live in London. Thoughtful, curious, lover of atmosphere and intricate conversations. I like modernist literature and art, Lana Del Rey, French film noir, long city walks, people watching. I’d love to meet a man who is reflective, warm, funny, and interested in the world around him. I don’t believe that other people’s dreams are boring. Tell me one of yours?
carlyvp477@gmail.com
25f, Toronto. Shop-girl. Looking to soak in the slower moments with someone sweet and thoughtful. I like to read, dance, and laugh. Let's walk around the city together and fall into something new.
allyshap8@gmail.com
28M, Brooklyn, curly brown hair. I like to ride my bike, go to as many movie theaters as possible, read in the park, go to Baby’s All Right shows, and eat amazing food and corner hot dogs alike. I spend most of my time other than that doing labor+community organizing and trying (failing) to capture the swag of 1970 Paul McCartney. Looking for someone to goof and yap with who likes a couple of these things, or who can show me new cool stuff to get into :). Want to go on some dates with someone passionate about whatever they spend their time doing but who doesn’t take themselves too seriously.
aaronsposner@gmail.com
F28, nyc, writer and painter seeking a man for long talks that never get to the point, reading next to each other in bed, and falling in love if we’re lucky.
talkaboutbookswithme@gmail.com
I’m a 26 year old man. I live in the Bay Area (Peninsula). I have brown hair, brown eyes and an odd smile. I’m looking for a woman to fall in love with, or any person of any gender to be friends with, so long as your politics are somewhere left of center. I like modernist literature and science fiction. I plan on watching every movie ever made before I die. Willing to try hiking and most things, just not skydiving. Looking to expand my heart. XOXO
tndating@outlook.com
29M in south slope, brooklyn. Do you enjoy taking day trips out of the city and getting lost in the met? So do I. Let's enjoy the world while we still can. Send me a short story you like and I'll send you one in return.
berry.mchl@gmail.com
24f, Idaho. Looking to connect with a man who can take me on long walks and play chess just as terribly as me. I enjoy running, reading, and on a Friday night you can probably find me tucked away into a dive bar watching a live show. I am 5'2 with long auburn curly hair and a lot of love-send me your favorite books and movies and I will show you mine.
curlycomics@gmail.com
22F back in philly postgrad in search of queer art friends, lets go to wash square/clark park/any park read books write poetry and make zines. i can draw your portrait you can read to me lets make everyones dreams come true. currently reading Playboy by Constance Debre tell me what youre reading. I need to go to all of the philly film society queer movie nights this june lets go together i'll pay for popcorn.
abranas7676@gmail.com
21F recent college grad looking for anything to hit and stick to. lover of the analogue, hand sewing a t-shirt, black and white pictures. I’m interested in infatuation and having a muse. maybe you’re smarter than me and 10 times more beautiful. you have a weird haircut and are committed to the bit. tell me a story and let me ask you about yourself.
zinelovebites@gmail.com
25m, splitting summer between NY and LA. Living in DC starting September. Enjoys writing about taxes and private law. Hopes to start writing about movies and running long distances. Plays the NYT Spelling Bee daily and reads fiction far more often than nonfiction. Seeking friends anywhere I am—or pen pals anywhere I'm not—to swap stories, book/movie/TV recommendations, thoughts about our interests, or anything else that comes to mind.
coljheath@gmail.com
20f (nearly 21). born-and-raised londoner currently studying abroad on the mainland but will be back soon for the summer holidays. looking for people to hang out with over the summer to avoid a fate worse than death (being alone with no plans and, therefore, stuck in suffocating childhood home). history student really into films (esp. body-horror), punk music, neo-soul, maoism-third worldism and marxism. currently enjoying: rewatching trier's oslo trilogy, improving my french and exposure therapy for my social anxiety. hoping to make friends in person and / or friends i can regularly correspond with over email. get in touch no matter where you are :)
saaissleeping@gmail.com
28f, London, iso of friends, lovers and fellow yappers. I’m a little shy to start but I warm up quickly! Into gossip, film, niche perfume, ballet, Marxism, Frank O’Hara, & the long 18th century. Let’s take a sleeper train, go swimming and lounge in the park to a soundtrack of Mitski and Joni Mitchell.
emmatranter2020@gmail.com
42, nonbinary writer, Philly, looking to be someone's favorite person. You're an artist who loves binging Criterion Collection movies and wants to walk around museums with me. You love thrifting and want to help me bake when the weather gets cooler. You love feeding people as much as I do and have probably volunteered with Food Not Bombs at some point. You have smart things to say about books and like walking through cemeteries. Bonus points if your ideal date is going to Off Track Betting and listening to Townes Van Zandt songs on the way home.
Queerlonging@outlook.com
25F, NYC. can be found frequenting movie theaters, baseball stadiums, thai restaurants and sports bars. ISO someone who also believes in the sanctity of a saturday morning matinee and is willing to roadtrip for hikes. must be okay with the fact that my greatest love will always be the ocean.
victors.bobcats_0z@icloud.com
30 / femme bisexual bob Dylan doppelgänger lady / crown heights / works in book publishing by day and also by night because who doesn’t love consistency / seeking a fellow reader & thinker who can make me laugh in writing and in person and while stoned walking around a museum and dancing in a living room / must love cats and hate Zionism / find me on X and tell me the names of your most active group chats: @aylazeef
ajzeef@gmail.com
early 20s queer. a journalist who codes. living in new york for the summer and looking for friends, lovers or secret third things. enjoys spending the whole day at the museum or the park, trying new types of fizzy drinks and making friends with cats. currently reading under the sign of saturn by susan sontag.
k888888887h@gmail.com
F27 London. Big-eyed, wild-haired writer and artist seeks irreverent, kind, bright-eyed man for jaunts to old soho dive bars and walking in the moony hours.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
31F writer in Stockholm, bored to death, looking for friends, penpals, book clubs, event-going crowds. Likes: nature reserves, Sebald, natural wine, Soviet film. Dislikes: Stureplan
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
28m, native new yorker from queens but living uptown. Looking for friends to play basketball with and watch the Knicks in the playoffs this year. (maybe even start a band?) Into communist propaganda, making music, the rap group Armand Hammer, and early 2000s indie films. Trying to be a graphic designer, but I used to work with foster kids. Hoping we can grab a beer together.
michaelt0730@gmail.com
23F / uptown manhattan. nyc native. have been on a slew of bad dates so i’m hoping to find some one cute that will ask me a question or two about myself. i like reading although i don’t do it as much as i should, so you should have some recs prepared. favorite book: buddha of suburbia by hanif kureishi. passionate about tortured female folk musicians. i don’t get along with people who don’t wash their towels on regularly.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
29m, London, bad texter, occasional baker, recovering workaholic. Looking for someone to go picnic with this spring/summer, aimlessly wonder around with, read poetry next to, and maybe, some day write love letters for.
dmynet@gmail.com
24f, Boston. music journalist and lover of sounds and the sea. full of feelings & words. currently living life with Eve Babitz as my muse. I run a zine w/ my old college roommate and work at a PR firm. looking for writer friends, pals who’d be interested in meeting up in the city to discuss books, or men who like going to concerts and being kind.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
25f Writer. Looking for a pen friend. I put a coin into Zoltar wishing for a friend I could go to Coney Island with. Almost two years later and no luck. Likes to wear tiare oil scented with frangipani. Fav books include the Master and Margarita, alongside City of Night, the Iliad and the Odyssey. Loves: The ocean, dive bars, singing, any shoe with a platform, do-it-yourself, analog, cats slow blinking, Martha Graham dance classes, opening a train window and smelling the jasmine.
tamsynchandler@gmail.com
29 queer. Ridgewood NY. Painter. Emotionally earnest, sexually adventurous. Friend to my chosen family and roommate to my two cats (Loaf and Bones). I am (prof. diagnosed, low-needs) autistic and trans (sometimes boyfriend, sometimes cute/pretty). Looking for someone to share love, books, fun facts, and long walks with.
Elifaithhill@gmail.com
24f. writer and machine churner. let’s discover the religious beauty of spring time in los angeles - maybe embark on a “before sunrise” romance? get solemn and stirred at the museum of jurassic technology then enjoy small batch ice cream? maybe discuss the “return to desire” essay? interested in laughing until I cry and crying until I laugh. reading now: zany cute interesting and salt fat acid heat. <3
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
23F, 5’11” Californian in Brooklyn. Speechwriter, ironic cooking Instagrammer, former history major and biographer of a forgotten icon of the radical right. “Training for my first half marathon.” Seeking: boy to do bits and go to Mr. Kale (or the Mr. Fruit market of your choosing) with. Tell me your favorite thing about your neighborhood! a98952559@gmail.com
25F post grad midwestern transplant to Boston looking to build a community. I dream of a neighborhood full of friends and a local spot we regularly gather, like a grown up group of kids who play in the street all summer and I want to run home at dusk with a scraped knee.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
I live in Lisbon and would like to make some friends. I enjoy hanging out by bodies of water and inside movie theatres, and dancing, of course. I am really good at making plans! i really like people, and beer and Leonard Cohen.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
23f. California girl in downtown manhattan. Love the sun, road movies, reading magazines, walking around, Coney Island, learning about the world, being in love. Lets spend some time together
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
29M homo in Orange County, CA, seeking friends and writing collaborators for the coming summer and beyond. I like to psychoanalyze fiction, discuss films, and writhe around the floor at South Coast Plaza where the Rainforest Cafe used to be. Do you? Let's get together. Do you like soju or Freud? Let's get together ASAP
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
27f/nigerian-american/east harlem, ISO friends who live uptown or in the bronx (open to anyone but tired of hauling ass to brooklyn/downtown every other weekend). not really into parties or crowds, but love going for walks, seeing films, having dinner parties, chatting/gossiping on a comfy couch. also hoping to start a book club for international black (leftist!) literature. don't have to be black, but have to be friendly and critical/skeptical of identity politics and mainstream representations of blackness. let's spend spring/summer together above 100th st.
ldyessuff@gmail.com
25F, tall-ish, DC, seeking connection, preferably intense and raw. A little proper, a little bit adventurous. I like conversation, Peanut Chews, and fiction. Above all , looking to be seen.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
24 F. Strawberry blonde, NYC based writer/MFA candidate iso homies, lovers..or honestly, even roommates, (it's that SEASON)- to sit in parks & make art with, hit up dives or thrift with in the rain. Lover of: the art of panicked memoir, vintage fur and leather, The Sopranos, folk punk music, collage as an avenue of transmission, long letters, poetry that gets a little vulgar, running, Marlboros, and anyone who wants to teach me how to cook.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
23f, nyc, looking for friends to attend literary events & read at cafés that turn into wine bars at night. ny school sun baby, bret easton ellis autofiction rising, & muriel spark/donna tartt/julio cortázar moon. flâneur poet of the everyday, wim wenders & gia coppola lover, personification of the love letter emoji bearing a vintage schiapareli scarf<3
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
25f, queens. curly-haired copywriter who loves the ferry, hates grocery shopping, and has her mother’s taste in candy. will make you watch dirty dancing with her. probably has carpal tunnel. is prone to keeping that one piece of paper for her scrapbook. looking for someone to share shelf space with in our future in-home library.
cabbageonline@gmail.com
29m, back and forth btw NYC and Chicago - Walker looking for a municipal bureaucrat with a heart of gold. Love oral history, movies, poetry, and fiction that reads like poetry. I used to work as a journalist, now do political comms. I run a literary magazine and write a city life column called “City Mouse”. I also convene friendly gatherings of translators. Not into scenes and parties but do love people. "Those who love everything are despised by everything, as those who love a city, in its profoundest sense, become the shame of that city." (Don’t actually care what your job is.)
musickmorley0814@gmail.com
24f, kind and curious californian in brooklyn. seeking lively conversation and laughter with a man who imagines a better world. loves slim, eccentric, translated novels, the sun on my back, baking, and the sea. recently discovered movies. will write you love letters.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
24F long island/nofo -- organic farm worker, student! i whisper that i'm a writer when i'm alone. love all things memoirs, yoga, meditation, dried flowers, dancing, travel into the unfamiliar. would love to read by the water, pick berries, stroll the MET with you and share radiance & love! can and will serenade you, cook and bake for you (or with you), adorn your fridge with a homemade card.
samanthadickhut@gmail.com
23f, brooklyn, big ol lesbo seeking new friends and or lovers! i'm a writer/artist with a penchant for kitschy horror, food writing, maggie nelson, mockumentaries. looking for a plus one to check out art/music/parties with me! i'm a pisces and a redhead and you are: an aries maybe? a leo even? you: have a dry sense of humor? we can trade goss about our personal lives and i'll send you photos of silly dogs i see on the street + bring you to the museum where i work. kisses!
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
33, Brown cis male, Brooklyn 11201. Better listener than talker, especially if you're giving me a book rec. A bit judgmental about music tastes, but never mean about it. Enjoy running and people watching in Prospect, continuously trying to convince you that Bombay is the best city in the world, and will always try to get a seat for you on the train. Cooking for two people is easier too.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
22f, yank in scotland but may be anywhere from queens to coastal maine to antarctica come the end of this year (fr!). habitual rube, "culture" ""worker,"" and lover of Tony Gatlif. iso: epistolary friends for exchanging longreads, butches to play poker with in a basement, and ex-fundies of all shapes.
kajoodonnell@gmail.com
24F. practical daydreamer looking for someone gentle who can change a tire. likes matinees, epistolary novels, long walks, futzing around and making a fuss in the kitchen. hates bananas and running to catch the bus. write me?
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
24M, nyc. Tall, Nigerian American. ISO someone to read Sigrid Nuñez to , watch kelly reichardt films with and generally goof around the city with.
fkjimoh@gmail.com
25f filipina american infj angel in queens nyc looking for lovely friends to watch Asian cinema, drink coffee, maybe host a book club, or enjoy the cherry blossoms with.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
27f, dc. seeking someone willing to go watch a film of ryuichi sakamoto's last performance with me
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
31, m, brooklyn — brown, tall, curly-haired designer with a soft spot for coconut (curries, cookies, candies, cakes), wanting to find a partner who’d want to co-run a book/confidante club (maybe we get thru stalingrad/life of fate together?? :pleading-emoji:), go off to far-flung corners of the city and also the earth, make life together...!
thomagranates@gmail.com
29F, bushwick/brooklyn (not the best for dating emotionally available men). taiwanese american, i spend my days slacking at a graeber nonprofit bullshit job, teaching yoga, and cooking elaborate meals. i love reading novels, taking silly photos with my shitty digital camera, and going to the beach. i'll bake you a sourdough if i really like you! :')
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
22f in dublin. sound artist and collage maker seeking community, pen pals, and maybe true love. i love abrasive music (send your weirdest or most meaningful bandcamp find), personal essays and GOOD fiction, the first jackass movie, and swimming in the sea. i am a libra and a c cup, in that order. trying to engage with the greater world and staying far far away from my phone, flaneuse with me !
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
23m from anaheim looking to enjoy the brevity of each others' silence. in search of friends, artists, and anyone that enjoys mojave 3, the cranes are flying, pomegranates, and old vintage stamps
oscarortega3100@gmail.com
28F in Brooklyn, sometimes a writer, always an organizer. looking for friends and/or lovers to watch movies, eat sushi, love the open road, believe in our fellow man and a better world together. must not be averse to spicy food.
tisya.m@gmail.com
27f queer environmentalist in Brooklyn looking for friends to write novels with. Other potential activities: knitting, sewing, shabbat dinners with me and my fiancée, Hudson Valley day trips, listening to the Roches, and gossiping. Always extra thrilled to make friends with other queer women, but definitely not a requirement!
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
24m, bay area/dc/???. law & history student interested in contributing to the class struggle (in a funny and self-effacing sense but i also mean it). like everyone else i enjoy reading books (recently cultural history, modernist poetry, balzac), watching movies (altman, hou, akerman, hawks), and listening to post-punk, indie rock, and country. looking for someone with strong moral/intellectual/political/aesthetic commitments who likes long conversations and wandering around.
h8191092@gmail.com
Recently 29-turned-30 yr male looking for a a book (or movie, TV, etc.) club!Los Angeles-based, but open to an inclusive, remote-style book club, too. Recently read/watched: Susie Boyt's LOVE and MISSED, Konstantin Paustovsky's THE STORY OF A LIFE, Claire Simon's OUR Body, and the new MR & MRS. SMITH (S1). Feeling sheepish and will go for a long walk after hitting submit..
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
28 year old north brooklyn-based journalist / writer / media operator seeking friends & / or lovers to go on long walks, take the ferry to rockaway, sit in dim bars, discuss books, swap short stories, etc... Must have a charmed view of the universe; agnostic whether you're more of a five star or dive bar gal. My pitch on me: Tall, fit, amazing eyes, thoughtful, devoted, & I know who I am.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
22f, uk. looking for someone to start an epistolary (read: email) intellectual friendship with. willing to discuss writing, movies, recipes, nyt mini crossword, other people's pathologies, birds you see out and about, etc. those who take themselves too seriously need not apply <3
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
26f seeking a nyc based friend to get coffee with and witness each other at social events while we're still in our 20s. only a leftist buzzkill 30% of the time, can increase or decrease as you prefer. mostly on this earth to fart around.
torlaschi.lau@gmail.com
28f, nomadic in Minneapolis, painter, copywriter. looking for my match in sweetness and in wit. i love: making amatriciana, listening to smog, looking at fauvist paintings, wearing cowboy boots with a mini skirt, and reading jack spicer.
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
buxom trans femcel “writer” 28 seeks verified chaser for true love in the bay area. one dead parent preferred. whimsy and joie d.v. required. “standing humbly/ at the gate of someone else’s mystery and hoping for the sound,/ at least now and then, of the hinges turning…”
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
22F, NYC. Math & Phil student. I like to read and paint. I also like: Amadeus (the movie), Scandinavian directors (not Lars Von Trier), ginger beer, handwritten lists, a firm blackberry. Looking for someone who shares my optimism about love, agrees with Deleuze on desire, and will find me the perfect reading chair for my office.
cyy22470@gmail.com
31f, manhattan. beautiful bengali book editor + writer. orbiting the open-ended end of a big relationship, hoping to reconnect with possibility. would love someone to talk to about cerebral fiction, third worldism, haunting films/ B movies, reality television… and to laugh and complain and eat seafood with. must despise zionism and yearn for liberation with equal fervor. can you drive me to the ocean?
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
26m in ridgewood. office worker and swimmer. I love WG Sebald and the sea and I want to move to Denmark, where my mom is from. I ended up being more of a mourner than a leftist, maybe. I don't like America or France. I feel really inept most days. I recently found out I'm 5'9". I'm looking for someone similar, but with longer and prettier hair.
Noah.fech@gmail.com
a lady (24, blood type O+, ashamed poli sci graduate) trying to find a person & a community to survive the tech hellscape of the Bay Area in California with. maybe you'd like to get to know a short woman who feels an intense desire to Know All Things and who loves perusing grocery stores and taking pictures of cats?perhaps?
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
26, male, brooklyn, short king lover boy in search of woman to talk fiction, greenwood cemetery headstones, edward yang, and sex and the city with while we wait for the pot of pho i made to accumulate flavor over a low boil. send me your guilty pleasure drake song
angelfoodpersonals@gmail.com
30, female, london england via the hague, brisbane and london england (the first time). god's favourite girl seeks a man who is kind, funny and charismatic. a lover of midwest emo, movies with subtitles, the poetry of frank o'hara and very long walks, i have long hair, two passports, a decent command of french and an open heart.
everyotherbee@gmail.com
23f from ny in search of romance or friendship — ideally both! loves horror movies, waffle fries, and the music of joanna newsom
annerinaldi2000@gmail.com
| 28M, Brooklyn. I consider romantic love, alongside the fine arts, to be one of the highest and noblest aspirations of human beings, and I am looking for someone to pursue it with. Guilty pleasures: dairy products, world news journalism, nostalgiabait video essays. joseph.carter1834@gmail.com 25 year old bisexual zinemaker, writer, and painter who lives off of extra dirty vodka martinis and lavender oat milk lattes. looking for the truest of all loves(or the best of friends). pet rabbit in a pink walled brooklyn apartment. can make an excellent bouef bourguignon a la julia child dtfbieberandmb@gmail.com |
25 yo frail but brave girl from the deep south, tall, interested in fly fishing @ brooklyn bridge park, loves to compliment strangers on TikTok, doesn’t own a microwave, has a gorgeous dreamscape, knows a lot about Clover Adams. ISO a lover to run, fish, laugh, and lie with.
marthalovelangford@gmail.com
40F seeking someone to cook me meals and say nice things, in exchange for a companion to all kinds of NYC cultural events and travels further afield. Let's find out if Annie Ernaux-style obsession is capable of making the long haul.
nora.rawn@gmail.com